My cousin Joe once told me to marry the guy you cannot live without. I would add, pick the guy who naturally feels a part of your world. Side note: this doesn't mean you won't fight or have difficult times, it just means pick the one person who is worth going through everything with.
This is what makes up normal life:
1. He puts up with the fact you need to press snooze several times as part of waking up.
2. He had to give up a favorite food like peanut butter so you wouldn't have allergic reactions.
3. After several years, you finally realized that compromising on something to watch wasn't really what happened. He liked watching a lot of things and picked movies and shows based on your joint interests. So we weren't watching Center Stage, but he loved watching you laugh while watching Gilmore Girls.
4. He encouraged you to go to grad school even if it meant he had all six kids on his own for 10 days.
5. You get to have cute clothing and a nice haircut first. He says," I benefit if she looks hot" if anyone questions how we spend our money.
6. You would pick cuddling on the couch every night over anything else.
7. He woke up the inner introvert you needed, but ignored.
8. The first baby diapers of the day were usually changed by dad.
9. You still feel like it is the first day you met every time you look at him.
10. You don't need to compare your relationship to anyone else because it is yours!
This list is too long for a blog post. Here is glimpse into our amazing 11 years. I love you Tim Ruybalid!
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